1、没有了二十岁的洒脱肆意，没有过四十岁的云淡风轻，三十岁想要的是更好的生活。without the freedom and fearlessness of the twenties and the clarity of the forties, what the thirties want is nothing but a better life.
2、夫妻之间，八成都是平淡的日子，两成是大起大落。这两成要是走好了，就能抵消前面八成的不如意。for a couple, 80% of a married life is made of daily routines and 20% ups and downs. but if you can get through all the ups and downs together, the unsatisfaction created from the routine life could be offset.
3、不是所有努力都会成功的，很多事都会事与愿违，我劝你也早点明自这个道理，不是有钱什么事都能办得成的。working hard does not necessarily mean you are being productive. sometimes, things turn out contrary to the way one wishes. i really do hope that you truly understand this as soon as possible. being wealthy does not necessarily mean being successful.